By the title of this post, I have a feeling that many people have just rushed to read it.
Yes, gossiping may be fun but what if you are the target? Have you ever thought about being the one to walk up to a table or room, where everyone is laughing & having fun, & then suddenly there's silence? Its funny how people are willing to spread rumors about others and have fun while doing it and don't have the heart to stop and think. Teens these days are gossiping about those that don't 'fit in' and those that don't live up to 'there standards'. Some think they are funny while others plainly think that they are mean.
If you're the one spreading rumors about someone, think about how you would feel if someone said the same selfish and mean about you. If it would hurt your feelings. The odds are it would hurt the other person's feelings as well. Gossiping is a problem for teens and adults alike, and it takes a lot of time and effort to keep yourself from gossiping or to get people around you to stop. It's a worthwhile effort, though, sparing a lot of people bad feelings.
♥ So, Have u ever been a victim or the victim of gossiping?How has this affected your life? :] ♥
♥ So, Have u ever been a victim or the victim of gossiping?How has this affected your life? :] ♥
We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
--Cato the Elder
So tru chica, alot of people enjoy gossiping and hate it when the tables turn but let me tell you this, those who gossip are the ones with the most issues and gossiping is their way of getting the attention away from themselves and focus it on some one esle. I personally cannot really say if I was a victim of gossip because I don't pay much attentino to that, I don't care what others have to say about me. I love this post chica, gives people the opportunity to think... Keep it up :-)
ReplyDeleteThanks girl.
ReplyDelete& i must agree with you. Most people that gossip are those who hide behind the door and try to talk about others to feel better about themselves.
I'm glad you are not a victim of gossiping. Keep that great reputation of yours girl. :) ♥
I think almost everyone has gossiped once or more in their lives.
ReplyDeleteI live in an island where gossip is spread at the speed of lightning...
I think I have been the victim of gossip back home more than once but I don't pay mind to that.
At school, I somewhat have, you know what I'm talking bout Seli! =\
But I don't gossip will ever have a stop to it, that's that.
WE just have to be the bigger persons and not continue it if it does come to us or if we're the victims.. ignore it!
"Keep you head held high, because there's people who'd kill to see you fall!" =D
Yes raqui u are right. Like i said: "Gossiping is a problem for teens and adults alike, and it takes a lot of time and effort to keep yourself from gossiping or to get people around you to stop." :]
ReplyDeleteSo lets work on that.
take it this way, once people are gossiping about you, it means you are doing something that they wish they could be doing, or you have something that they want. Don't let rumors get you down, it hurts to be the victim, but as Cinnaman said, try not to pay attention (it's hard, but try:-)
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